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What I find sexy

Just for a change, I thought I'd tell you all the things about a man I find really, really sexy.


These are in no particular order:




- When he steers a car with the bottom of the palm of his hand
- When a guy behind the steering wheel puts his hand on the back of the passenger seat while he reverses. I don't know...it's like he's putting his arm around you while keeping you safe AND reversing a vehicle. THAT IS HOT.
- When a guy puts his hand on the small of my back to guide me. Ooft.
- Winking. OMG. I love any wink at all; thoughtful winks, cheeky winks, winks that say "I'm right here - go for it"...I love them. SO HOT.
- When a guy is great around children. Oh my word. If a guy is holding a baby with care...and smiles...I think my ovaries explode.
- When a guy is fixing something around the house
- When a guy is fully concentrating on something he's doing - especially if he's using a tool at the time. OH MY WORD.
- I love, love, love when they clench that muscle on their jaw. Channing Tatum has this down to a tea. Probably why I have a 'celebrity crush' on him. OMG.
- When a guy orders for me and gets it just right. Hot damn. I like that.
- When a guy offers to get the bill. Yep. That is HOT.
- When a guy walks with assurance.
- When a guy is comfortable in his own skin.
- When a guy leans down and you can see the top of his underwear - if it's a straight, neat line along his lower back...omg...that gets to me. SO HOT.
- Guys who open doors for ladies. LOVE it.
- When guys casually lean against things while standing - and cross their ankles while doing this. OOFT.
- When a guy dresses well - neat and casual with colours that suit him or when a guy is smartly dressed in a suit
- guys who wear just the right type and amount of aftershave. OMG. So nice.
- When a man runs his hand over the stubble on his face. SO HOT. I love that grainy noise.
- Guys who wear casual shoes - the ones with white souls (sp?) on them - and pad about comfortably in them. I love that.
- Guys who laugh/smile a lot. Alun has a special soft chuckle that makes my tummy feel so warm. It's just so hot when a guy is genuinely happy.




Okay I think that's about it.


Is it me - or has it gotten somewhat hotter in here?


Haha.





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